Can Married Life Be Difficult Even After Kundli Milan?

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In our country, a Hindu marriage is not fixed without Kundli Milan. All matches and marriage talks start with an extensive Guna Milan to check the compatibility of the married couple. Despite this, sometimes, the matrimonial connection hits rock bottom. In this article, we try to find the reasons behind this. So, read on:

Among all Hindus, the institution of matrimony is very important and is even considered sacred. Many rituals and customs are performed to ensure that the couple lives a happily married life. The most important among these is the ritual of Kundli Milan, also known as matching horoscopes.

However, is the matching of horoscopes all that is needed to ensure a happily ever after for the prospective bride and groom? Many people counter this claim by suggesting that many marriages work even when horoscopes are not matched! Despite matching horoscopes, at times, the health of the matrimonial alliance falters, resulting in unhappiness. Factors like the inability to have a child, financial troubles, or health issues can burst the bubble of happiness in marriage.

So, let us understand why a marriage can be difficult despite matching Kundlis:

Why Is Kundli Milan Not Enough?

Many times disputes may arise in a marriage due to the clashing personality of the two individuals tied in holy matrimony. They might not be able to see eye to eye, being unhappy with each other.

During horoscope matching, only 8 major criteria or “kootas” are taken into consideration. This is known as Ashtakoota matching. The eight kootas of both the wife and the husband are checked to ensure that they live in harmony. But, this can not be the only criteria to ensure a happy marriage.

Individual horoscopes must also be given equal importance to understand the personality of the two individuals before matching horoscopes.

Let us have a look at the different points that have to be considered to ensure bliss in matrimony:

Important Factors For Happy Marriage:

Here are other important things that must be considered for good compatibility in marriage-
  • Longevity of the couple: It is essential that the longevity of the two individuals is carefully determined. This can be calculated by studying the Lagna lord or the Lagnesh lord and Ashtmesh dosha in the horoscope of the bride and groom. This will highlight if the match will be favorable for both individuals. This knowledge can help us get a remedy for the dosha.
  • The health of the couple: This is another factor that can be determined with the help of the Lagna lord. An astrologer can study the lord of the 4th, 6th, and 8th house as well as the position of the moon in the natal chart to check the history of illness that can impact the couple’s future life.
  • Hardships in life: To ensure that the couple faces no issues in their married life, the 7th house must be carefully evaluated in the birth chart of the bride and the groom. It must be studied whether the 7th house is weak or in retrograde or if the 7th house is exalted in the 8th or the 6th house. It should be noted if the 7th house is under the influence of a malefic planet. If any of these is true, the marriage will suffer despite 36 Gunas matching.
  • Children after marriage: One of the purposes of marriage is to procreate. Therefore this aspect must also be carefully evaluated before marriage to ensure happiness and fulfillment in matrimony.
  • Mars in the charts: The position of Mars has to be studied carefully in the horoscope of the bride and groom. If there is a match, only then should the couple think about marriage else the influence of Mars can ruin even the happiest of homes.

In A Nutshell!

If there are any doshas or cruel influences in the horoscope, they need to be remedied before Kundli Milan so as to ensure that the couple unlocks boundless happiness and contentment in their life and journey together